The hard side is the one, where you are angry, agitated, perhaps spewing profanities at every single thing or human that antagonized you just a bit. Being somewhat of a devil, and making the kind of face where if someone film it, you will realize how angry you can actually look.
The soft side is the side, where you talk softly, make gentle actions, smile more. It is something without all the hardness, the way you treat someone you really love, and making the face where you will want your photographs to look like.
My workplace generally just requires the hard side, from my observation. It holds especially true for my section, being a workplace saturated with stress. It seems like I will be working here for pretty long. I am kinda afraid that if you are hard all the time, and without someone to be soft with, I will forget how to be soft.
Where will I be then?
